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		<title>Comment on Atheism by Randy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 22:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, I don&#039;t buy the &quot;sliver of doubt&quot; defense of agnosticism, and I think it only serves to prove Matt&#039;s (or his friend&#039;s) point. There are lots of things that we believe or don&#039;t believe without being beyond-a-shadow-of-doubt certain. We don&#039;t say I neither believe nor do I disbelieve man made global warming because we&#039;re not absolutely certain. Agnostics that I know are typically 95%+ sure that God is a myth. They don&#039;t hedge their bets with prayer or attending services. They are not worried about going to hell. I&#039;ll leave it to the agnostics to say what they are worried about, but I think Matt is certainly in the ballpark.

...and I don&#039;t think it&#039;s arrogant to say, &quot;I don&#039;t believe in God&quot; unless it&#039;s arrogant to say, &quot;I believe cigarettes are bad for you.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I don&#8217;t buy the &#8220;sliver of doubt&#8221; defense of agnosticism, and I think it only serves to prove Matt&#8217;s (or his friend&#8217;s) point. There are lots of things that we believe or don&#8217;t believe without being beyond-a-shadow-of-doubt certain. We don&#8217;t say I neither believe nor do I disbelieve man made global warming because we&#8217;re not absolutely certain. Agnostics that I know are typically 95%+ sure that God is a myth. They don&#8217;t hedge their bets with prayer or attending services. They are not worried about going to hell. I&#8217;ll leave it to the agnostics to say what they are worried about, but I think Matt is certainly in the ballpark.</p>
<p>&#8230;and I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s arrogant to say, &#8220;I don&#8217;t believe in God&#8221; unless it&#8217;s arrogant to say, &#8220;I believe cigarettes are bad for you.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing by Tweets that mention The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing - Matthew T Grant -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 17:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Kristen M Jones, Matthew T. Grant. Matthew T. Grant said: Thoughts on authenticity, ghost blogging, social media, @mitchjoel, etc. http://bit.ly/d2MYqJ - Am I right or just ranting? [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing by Mitch Joel - Twist Image</title>
		<link>http://www.matthewtgrant.com/2010/08/17/the-really-real-totally-authentic-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-473</link>
		<dc:creator>Mitch Joel - Twist Image</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 00:37:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good to hear as my one line about Social Media (and what makes it so special) is: &quot;real interactions between real human beings.&quot; Even when you both don&#039;t totally agree with one another ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good to hear as my one line about Social Media (and what makes it so special) is: &#8220;real interactions between real human beings.&#8221; Even when you both don&#8217;t totally agree with one another <img src='http://www.matthewtgrant.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.matthewtgrant.com/2010/08/17/the-really-real-totally-authentic-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-472</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 00:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>seeing things as cool = upbeat, inspiring message /// saying that things suck = can be a bring down but can also have humor value
still confused?

I understood that you were expressing your feelings (feelings of being deceived, for example), but you were also expressing an ethos - a prescriptive standard of behavior - which I thought included some judgment. 

I don&#039;t think I defined &quot;fake&quot; but I really only consider blogs fake when they are completely feed-driven and apparently run by robots. If CEO John Doe has a blog called &quot;CEO John Doe&#039;s Blog,&quot; and CEO John Doe has some involvement with it and approves what is posted on it, I would not consider it fake. The thing is that when I read a blog I never think about whether or not it was written or edited or proofread by the by-lined author (for the blogs I read, I usually don&#039;t recognize the name anyway). By the same token, whenever I read anything &quot;written&quot; by a CEO of a company of any size I assume that someone else either wrote it or helped write it. This isn&#039;t merely cynicism. If someone is speaking as CEO they are, to a certain extent, speaking as a corporate function, not just a person. I expect them to have support in carrying out that function. 

Now if CEO John Doe had a personal blog where he mainly wrote about golf, fly fishing, and his hometown and he paid someone else to write it for him, I would think that was a little weird but I&#039;m not really sure I would care. If I had gotten emotionally involved in what he was saying and thought we were really connecting through comments or whatever and then it turned out I was interacting with a surrogate the whole time, it would be a drag, I admit

Finally: evangelism. I appreciate your evangelical streak as well, but mainly when its on the upswing - &quot;Isn&#039;t this cool! This changes everything!&quot; - and not so much when the underlying message seems to be, &quot;If you aren&#039;t being awesome, you suck. Why do you decide to suck instead of be awesome?&quot; Godin kind of does the same thing and, frankly, audiences seem to respond so maybe I&#039;m just overly sensitive. To me the rhetoric of realizing your potential and &quot;being all you can be&quot; reflects a capitalist urge to exploit things to the point of exhaustion and extinction. I think it can be healthy to leave some potential unrealized, in other words. But that&#039;s just me.

At the same time, the problem I brought up at the end of my post is reflected in your final words &quot;these channels can re-invigorate marketing.&quot; I&#039;m an old hippy and have never been able to shake the feeling that business-stuff is always already coopted, manipulative, and &quot;inauthentic.&quot; If the best thing that comes of social media is an improvement of marketing effectiveness, then social media is just another part of the bummer, man. 

In my own experience, the social media have been the most rewarding when they facilitated personal connections that really had nothing to do with money (I include this interaction in that category).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>seeing things as cool = upbeat, inspiring message /// saying that things suck = can be a bring down but can also have humor value<br />
still confused?</p>
<p>I understood that you were expressing your feelings (feelings of being deceived, for example), but you were also expressing an ethos &#8211; a prescriptive standard of behavior &#8211; which I thought included some judgment. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I defined &#8220;fake&#8221; but I really only consider blogs fake when they are completely feed-driven and apparently run by robots. If CEO John Doe has a blog called &#8220;CEO John Doe&#8217;s Blog,&#8221; and CEO John Doe has some involvement with it and approves what is posted on it, I would not consider it fake. The thing is that when I read a blog I never think about whether or not it was written or edited or proofread by the by-lined author (for the blogs I read, I usually don&#8217;t recognize the name anyway). By the same token, whenever I read anything &#8220;written&#8221; by a CEO of a company of any size I assume that someone else either wrote it or helped write it. This isn&#8217;t merely cynicism. If someone is speaking as CEO they are, to a certain extent, speaking as a corporate function, not just a person. I expect them to have support in carrying out that function. </p>
<p>Now if CEO John Doe had a personal blog where he mainly wrote about golf, fly fishing, and his hometown and he paid someone else to write it for him, I would think that was a little weird but I&#8217;m not really sure I would care. If I had gotten emotionally involved in what he was saying and thought we were really connecting through comments or whatever and then it turned out I was interacting with a surrogate the whole time, it would be a drag, I admit</p>
<p>Finally: evangelism. I appreciate your evangelical streak as well, but mainly when its on the upswing &#8211; &#8220;Isn&#8217;t this cool! This changes everything!&#8221; &#8211; and not so much when the underlying message seems to be, &#8220;If you aren&#8217;t being awesome, you suck. Why do you decide to suck instead of be awesome?&#8221; Godin kind of does the same thing and, frankly, audiences seem to respond so maybe I&#8217;m just overly sensitive. To me the rhetoric of realizing your potential and &#8220;being all you can be&#8221; reflects a capitalist urge to exploit things to the point of exhaustion and extinction. I think it can be healthy to leave some potential unrealized, in other words. But that&#8217;s just me.</p>
<p>At the same time, the problem I brought up at the end of my post is reflected in your final words &#8220;these channels can re-invigorate marketing.&#8221; I&#8217;m an old hippy and have never been able to shake the feeling that business-stuff is always already coopted, manipulative, and &#8220;inauthentic.&#8221; If the best thing that comes of social media is an improvement of marketing effectiveness, then social media is just another part of the bummer, man. </p>
<p>In my own experience, the social media have been the most rewarding when they facilitated personal connections that really had nothing to do with money (I include this interaction in that category).</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing by Mitch Joel - Twist Image</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 21:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How is seeing something as a cool way to do things and then seeing something as uncool way to do things any different?

I find that very confusing.

Throughout the entire post, my comment was - continually - that my thoughts on ghost blogging were an opinion/feeling - not a hard and fast rule. It was how something (in this case, ghost blogging) makes me feel.

I also don&#039;t understand your definition of &quot;fake&quot; here. If someone&#039;s name is on a Blog and they are not the person writing it, that seems pretty fake to me at the most basic level.

Lastly, I love my evangelical streak. I like dreaming and dreaming with others because I do think that these channels can re-invigorate marketing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How is seeing something as a cool way to do things and then seeing something as uncool way to do things any different?</p>
<p>I find that very confusing.</p>
<p>Throughout the entire post, my comment was &#8211; continually &#8211; that my thoughts on ghost blogging were an opinion/feeling &#8211; not a hard and fast rule. It was how something (in this case, ghost blogging) makes me feel.</p>
<p>I also don&#8217;t understand your definition of &#8220;fake&#8221; here. If someone&#8217;s name is on a Blog and they are not the person writing it, that seems pretty fake to me at the most basic level.</p>
<p>Lastly, I love my evangelical streak. I like dreaming and dreaming with others because I do think that these channels can re-invigorate marketing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Really Real, Totally Authentic Thing by admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 20:34:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the quick response, Mitch.

As far as questions 1 and 2 are concerned, I guess it depends on what you mean by &quot;writing.&quot; Is this really about the physical act of typing? I thought we were talking about authorship, which involves both the organization of language and ideas and publicly taking ownership of them.

As far as question 3 goes, I don&#039;t believe that analogy is apt at all. But if ghost bloggers give people fake names and ideas to pass off as their own, maybe I&#039;m not a ghost blogger after all. That&#039;s just not how it goes down with my clients.

My real beef, and its not just with you, sir, concerns the &quot;authenticity imperative&quot; that seems to prevail in the discourse around social media. Most people who invoke &quot;authenticity&quot; as a value, usually one that will help differentiate you in the marketplace of ideas, don&#039;t seem to have thought the concept through or realize that &quot;authentic&quot; utterances themselves have been carefully, albeit sometimes unconsciously, crafted out of all the things a person could possibly say. Nothing we say is pure, uncut, genuine. There&#039;s always something else behind it. 

The same is true, I believe, of &quot;openness,&quot; &quot;transparency,&quot; and &quot;honesty.&quot; Verily these are ideals because they do not exist in human society in unadulterated form.

Perhaps, though, I am the real moralist, because I do not believe anyone is justified in pointing out the fakery of others. Thus when you or Avinash or anyone else start holding people to a particular moral standard: &quot;A blog is THIS. Writing blogs should happen in THIS way. If you do it THAT way you are doing something wrong.&quot; - it rankles. 

You do have an evangelical streak in you, Mitch Joel, and every time I&#039;ve seen you speak I think it&#039;s the one element that&#039;s rubbed me the wrong way. This may be why I was compelled to respond to your post in the way I did. I think your stuff is strong when you are saying, &quot;This is a cool way to do things.&quot; Less so when you say, &quot;If this is what you&#039;re doing, you suck.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the quick response, Mitch.</p>
<p>As far as questions 1 and 2 are concerned, I guess it depends on what you mean by &#8220;writing.&#8221; Is this really about the physical act of typing? I thought we were talking about authorship, which involves both the organization of language and ideas and publicly taking ownership of them.</p>
<p>As far as question 3 goes, I don&#8217;t believe that analogy is apt at all. But if ghost bloggers give people fake names and ideas to pass off as their own, maybe I&#8217;m not a ghost blogger after all. That&#8217;s just not how it goes down with my clients.</p>
<p>My real beef, and its not just with you, sir, concerns the &#8220;authenticity imperative&#8221; that seems to prevail in the discourse around social media. Most people who invoke &#8220;authenticity&#8221; as a value, usually one that will help differentiate you in the marketplace of ideas, don&#8217;t seem to have thought the concept through or realize that &#8220;authentic&#8221; utterances themselves have been carefully, albeit sometimes unconsciously, crafted out of all the things a person could possibly say. Nothing we say is pure, uncut, genuine. There&#8217;s always something else behind it. </p>
<p>The same is true, I believe, of &#8220;openness,&#8221; &#8220;transparency,&#8221; and &#8220;honesty.&#8221; Verily these are ideals because they do not exist in human society in unadulterated form.</p>
<p>Perhaps, though, I am the real moralist, because I do not believe anyone is justified in pointing out the fakery of others. Thus when you or Avinash or anyone else start holding people to a particular moral standard: &#8220;A blog is THIS. Writing blogs should happen in THIS way. If you do it THAT way you are doing something wrong.&#8221; &#8211; it rankles. </p>
<p>You do have an evangelical streak in you, Mitch Joel, and every time I&#8217;ve seen you speak I think it&#8217;s the one element that&#8217;s rubbed me the wrong way. This may be why I was compelled to respond to your post in the way I did. I think your stuff is strong when you are saying, &#8220;This is a cool way to do things.&#8221; Less so when you say, &#8220;If this is what you&#8217;re doing, you suck.&#8221;</p>
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		<description>I studied philosophy and I understand both the semantic and morals of which you write.

The one part that struck me though was this: &quot;Rightly or wrongly, I actually believe that the people whose bloggings I facilitate are the &#039;actual&#039; authors of the posts that I produce. The ideas are theirs, the &#039;voice&#039; is theirs, the blog is theirs, etc.&quot;

Regardless of my moral stance or the ideals I shared (and how you feel about them), I&#039;m grappling with a few questions:

1. If it&#039;s theirs, why are you writing it?
2. If you are writing it, why not say you wrote it?
3. How would you feel if after a dinner, I turned to you and said, &quot;BTW, the name I gave you? That&#039;s not me. Oh, and the topics we discussed? Not mine. Someone gave them to me.&quot; Do those encounters usually end up producing the best relationships?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I studied philosophy and I understand both the semantic and morals of which you write.</p>
<p>The one part that struck me though was this: &#8220;Rightly or wrongly, I actually believe that the people whose bloggings I facilitate are the &#8216;actual&#8217; authors of the posts that I produce. The ideas are theirs, the &#8216;voice&#8217; is theirs, the blog is theirs, etc.&#8221;</p>
<p>Regardless of my moral stance or the ideals I shared (and how you feel about them), I&#8217;m grappling with a few questions:</p>
<p>1. If it&#8217;s theirs, why are you writing it?<br />
2. If you are writing it, why not say you wrote it?<br />
3. How would you feel if after a dinner, I turned to you and said, &#8220;BTW, the name I gave you? That&#8217;s not me. Oh, and the topics we discussed? Not mine. Someone gave them to me.&#8221; Do those encounters usually end up producing the best relationships?</p>
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		<description>[...] of (an ultimately meaningless) existence, thus hoping to establish a new moral center following the death of God, the post-structuralists chose instead to show that the individual was not the center of anything [...]</description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 04:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hear ya, sister, especially about the &quot;perceived arrogance.&quot;

When I was growing up, if someone asked me my religion, I used to say I was a Methodist because that&#039;s what I was. It was as automatic as saying, &quot;I&#039;m American.&quot; There was no particular pride or any feeling associated with it. It was just a fact. 

Being an atheist, for some reason, can&#039;t just be a fact; it has to be a statement.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear ya, sister, especially about the &#8220;perceived arrogance.&#8221;</p>
<p>When I was growing up, if someone asked me my religion, I used to say I was a Methodist because that&#8217;s what I was. It was as automatic as saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m American.&#8221; There was no particular pride or any feeling associated with it. It was just a fact. </p>
<p>Being an atheist, for some reason, can&#8217;t just be a fact; it has to be a statement.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Jessica Weil, Pen Wong. Pen Wong said: RT @Jessica731: Another great post by @MattTGrant, in which he explores #Atheism in a truly intriguing way http://bit.ly/9lIzdK [...]</description>
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